I once heard a story about a lady who only had one box of all her belongings. I definitely need a lot more than just one box for all my belongings. What if something ever happened to me? How hard would it be on my loved ones to clear out all my stuff? How painful would that be? Do I truly need or even use all the stuff I own?
I have always known that less stuff leads to less clutter which can lead to less stress. However, in this day in age it is so hard not to get wrapped up with the idea of ‘keeping up with the Jones’. I sometimes feel like I am being a bad mom if I don’t let my kids have birthday parties with lots of guests and presents or having the coolest, most popular toys.
Is that what life is truly about? Is it about having the best of the best or the most? I want my kids to value relationships and time spent with those people. I want them to have happy memories of their childhood. That won’t happen with a mom screaming at them all the time to pick up their stuff. How can I set an example if I have stuff all over the place? How many casserole dishes does one person need? I don’t even make casseroles.
So I am slowly making changes.
I am also trying to teach my children how much I do love them and that no object on earth can show them that. What I can show them is me working on yelling less and spending more time with them. Having less materialistic stuff and more family time together shows them the love I want them to know. They will remember the movies we watch together or the games we play instead of stuff all over the place.
How much of what you have do you truly need or love? Why are you holding on to it? How freeing would it be to let go of one thing at a time? Let’s share thoughts and ideas with each other.
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